Tue 18 Mar 2008
Jenna Reflects on a Special Experience for Her in Calnali
Posted by mshoward under Back Home , In Calnali[2] Comments
This post was submitted by Ivy Tech student and ASB participant Jenna M.
Laundry in the River
On Friday, March 14, 2007, we were able to do another day of service. We helped a single mother that had six children, with the youngest being one year and five months. This family did not have a bathroom, so we built her a bathroom. The cement blocks and mortar were put together with the skilled help of an experienced local construction worker. It is difficult to get the blocks at the same level and straight. The men helped with this while the women tackled the inside of the home. Her home had dirt floors and walls that were made of tarps. The ventilation for the stove had so much soot and buildup in it that we had to take it down and clean it out. Mark went and got supplies to clean the pipe with and some soap to wash things with. The dishes were piled all over and there was a container of baby formula with bugs in it. There were also dirty clothes all over the room and there did not seem to be any clean clothes in sight. We packed up the clothes and dishes into the wheel barrel and headed to the river. The woman’s daughters and their cousins went to the river with us. There were six girls with us that taught me how to wash laundry in the river. We put the clothes in the water and then used powdered laundry soap to wash them. The girls used a large rock as a wash board and I soon began to learn how to wash clothes.
One of the girls named Flo asked me if I had ever washed clothes by hand and I told her no. She was so surprised to hear that I had always had a washer to use. I put clothes in my washer and go do other things. I take for granted the fact that some people in the world have to wash their clothes this way. It was such an eye opening experience. I have read about this in books, yet it does not sink in the same way that it did when I was there experiencing it for myself. The only way that I can begin to explain this to you is that it felt so real. It was real to be standing in the cold water of the river and washing clothes by hand. The sun was shining down on us and there was a group of horses walking by the river. It was a tranquil scene that was the perfect example of being on “Mexico time”. The people in this town did not run on a clock as I do in the United States. They do the things that need done for the day as they occur. If there a child needed attention or someone wanted to take the time to play, then they did. There was not a clock staring down at them telling them that they had two minutes until they had to be somewhere.
It is amazing to me how these people made it to school on time, but I guess that they knew by the fact that the sun rose in the morning. I would love to be in a culture that lives by the rising of the sun instead of watching a clock all day. I did not bring my cell phone or a watch to this trip because I wanted to surround myself with this experience and forget about counting the minutes of the day. The girls that worked with me washing the clothes really impressed me. These girls were between ten and thirteen years old and all worked at the same rate that I did. They did not complain and even seemed to enjoy working together. The fact that they were working together towards a common cause and were having fun doing it was impressive. Some people seem to be pessimistic about everything, but these girls were so willing to help each other.
The fact that the Catholic religion prevents these people from using birth control is a hard thing for me to understand. When there is not enough food to feed three people, I do not understand why these people not prevent having six children. However the way that they worked together and made the load light with many hands, proved a point to me that families work together to take care of each other. There are not nursing homes here, instead the elderly are taken care of in the home. The family steps up and takes care of the others when one person gets ill.
The team work that the girls was interesting to observe. One of the girls stood with me while another took the clothes and hung them on the trees or barb wire fence. The girls worked together to get the water out of the clothes. Each held a side of the clothing and twisted it around to remove the water. They worked together with such synchronism that I was truly impressed. Another thing that I loved was that they accepted me into their group and taught me how to do the job. They never made a judgment about the fact that I did not have any idea how to do this. Then after the chore was finished they swam in the river and splashed me as we all laughed and played in the river. I wish that my daughter could have been there to share this experience with me. I am thankful that I was able to help them and have this experience. When I got home today, I threw in a load of laundry and as I walked away from the washer, I thought of the girls in the river that day. I will truly appreciate the modern convenience of a washing machine for the rest of my life. Yet in a way, I envy these girls for being so close to nature each day.









